Now, now…before you go ahead and scan the meat here, try to pause and ponder on the status of your sex life right now. Is it sizzling hot or downright frozen? How about your career? You might notice that your erection might not go as up as much as your career does. Unfortunately, that’s true for most men especially those that have jobs that require most of their time that even sleeping is kept to a minimum…and sex is on an appointment basis! However, you cannot tell junior to perform at your will though…
Hard to believe but let met tell you that the penis has been qouted as having a mind of its own. The Reinassance scientist, inventor and artist once attempted to study this wayward vital organ. Leonardo da Vinci says: “The penis does not obey the order of his master, who tries to erect or shrink it at will, whereas the penis erects freely while its master is asleep. The penis must be said to have a mind of its own, by any stretch of the imagination.” Even men will agree with Da Vinci who dissected penis of cadavers and was the first to recognize that during an erection, the penis fills with blood.
The truth is, the penis is known to be under the complete control of the central nervous system – meaning your brain and your spinal cord. When you are sleeping, it is controlled by the sympathetic nervous system – akin to a security guard checking if everything’s under control.
Hard to believe but let met tell you that the penis has been qouted as having a mind of its own.
Now, how does this important part of the male anatomy come to life? It is when you stimulate his senses that the penis also starts noticing it. What do I mean? When you wear the perfume you usually wear to ignite your man’s passion, when you wear that silky lingerie, or strut in your little black dress, you are stimulating his senses. When these senses gets stimulated, the brain sends signals to the hypothalamus (similar to a paging system) which in turn transmits the message to the proper organ – in this case automatically, the penis. Once your man noticed your efforts, instinctively, the penis notices it too.
“But there are times that it doesn’t do as expected,” you may say. Since the brain processes all of our daily tasks, it is normal that sometimes the signal does not reach where it should be. One of the factor that plays a role is stress. When there is too much work to be done or your man has too much on his mind, like the bills to pay, the boss’ instructions to finish, deliveries, children’s tuition fee and more, any effort on your part might be to no avail. Because the brain is distracted, signals coming from the senses are ignored. If not ignored, they reach the hypothalamus but since there are more important matters to attend to, the message is not strong enough to reach its recipient – in this scenario, the penis. Therefore, failure in erection. Disease that interfere with brain functionality and transmission along the spinal cord such as paraplegia and/ or brain disorders naturally blocks any impulses that would sensitize the penis to erection.
Ladies, in order to achieve the desired effect of your stimulants (i.e., a sexy lingerie, a new sexy perfume) have your man rest for a while or try calling him in advance to condition the brain that there is something pleasurable to expect at home. This gives the brain time to cope and tune into the right condition so messages transmitted by the senses (by your stimulants) does not get curtailed.
Men, if you want to get an A+ on your performance, try to relax before the night you are expected to perform. In case the boss is putting so much pressure that you’re almost running to meet the deadline, don’t rush home yet. Instead, walk at the park, sit down by the park along a bay, watch the sunset to let your mind drift to pleasant things. In this way, you are like unloading the brain of its work-related tasks. Remember what your mom used to tell you: “You cannot add anything to an already filled up plate. Clear it up first before putting another heap unto it. Or better yet, get another plate.” So listen to mother…. I know you don’t want your lady-love to “get another plate,” would you?
